I was reading about mothers of adopted children nursing. When I was pregnant with Amanda and/or Bradley someone asked Mandy is she was going to nurse them. I was offended. I was thinking, if I was carrying them, I would be nursing them. If you know me, I am a control freak, so feeding my new child was so powerful to me. Anyway, Mandy never had an interest in carrying babies, or nursing them, until now. So, Mandy says she is going to nurse, and we have 4 babies, and she would really have a tough time nursing 4 babies. We are going to both attempt this task with the quads. We asked our doctor last week about me pumping to bring in milk. They called the lactation consultant immediately, and we have a big packet on the process. It isn't difficult. Just dedication. You know, I loved nursing Bradley. I actually had a hard time giving it up. Nursing the quads would sure be a beautiful thing, and save so much money in formula.
When Amanda was born, she was preemie, so I wouldn't leave her for a long time. When Bradley was born I breast fed exclusively. He never took a bottle. (well maybe 1 time?) But seriously, Since Amanda wouldn't nurse, I was
insistent that Bradley not be bottle fed. So, I never left him after birth either. So my question to Mandy today was : "do you think I will be that obsessed with the quads or do you think I will be so ready to get away for 5 minutes that it won't be the same as with the other 2?" She laughed at me. Like who the hell would be watching them for 5 minutes for me to go anywhere?
HAHA....yeah, silly wasn't it?
Mandy found a dodge sprinter today for us to go test drive. We have never been in one, and want to see if it is even an option to look for a reasonably priced one. Jason
Doan called Mandy today and told her she needed a short bus. Well, the short bus would be fine if Mandy and Jason were driving it every day. NOT THIS
CAMBY HOUSEWIFE!!! No Way! I'm stretching it by being
ok with a freaking cargo van w/ seats.
So, Mandy posts a bunch of names yesterday . The calls and emails are pouring in already... This would be why we didn't share Amanda's name with anyone until she was present and named. I think Mandy likes to create the drama. We are throwing around another boy name even though we have the bossy board filled out upstairs. Even though I wrote all the names on the board, everyone agrees it is good to be able to step back and see them in print.
Cuz, ya know, there are a lot of names up there. The first name drama came when Amanda's school left out
Sheckles on her school picture. Amanda Jo
Sheckles Paul. The school dropped
Sheckles. So Mandy said these babies were gonna all be
Sheckles. Then Ron (Mandy's Dad ) told her that all these kids need the same name. At least that would be something with our household that would be the same. Mandy won't take my last name, I won't take hers. Only because she is so
insistant NOT to take mine. No other reason for me. It is the battle of the wills. The kids think everyone in our family is a "
sheckles paul". But now that Amanda is older and funny as hell....papa
ron called for Mandy the other day. He asked to speak to "your mom". Amanda said "do you want mom
sheckles or mom Paul?" She gets it now. Eventually the kids will get the confusion in their names. Amanda is in first grade and just figured it out.
We agreed when Amanda was born not to hyphenate her name because it was confusing. Yeah, it is still confusing. So now you all know.....all the kids are "
sheckles paul" kids. Unless you are burping or being rude then we call you a
sheckles and if you are dipping strawberries in sugar your a
paul kid. Call us what you want, just don't call us late for supper.
over/out